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I Fired God


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  Contents

  Title Page

  Copyright Notice

  Foreword by Melissa Janz Fletcher

  1. Is the Devil Behind Us or Up Ahead?

  2. My Childhood in Wisconsin (1975–1985)

  3. Inside the World of the IFB

  4. The Inner Workings of the IFB Church

  5. Early Years in Colorado (1985–1988)

  6. Struggling Through the Teen Years (1988–1993)

  7. My College Years (1993–1995)

  8. Marriage and Motherhood, IFB Style (1995)

  9. The Homeschooling Mom

  10. The “Virtuous Woman”

  11. The Turning Point

  12. The Rocky Road to Freedom (2006)

  13. Breaking Free

  14. From IFB to Liberal

  15. The Survivors’ Network

  16. Taking the Cause Nationwide

  17. TRACS and Academic Fraud

  18. What Needs to Change?

  Note

  Bibliography

  About the Author

  Copyright

  Foreword

  Saying we grew up in obscurity seems underwhelming. It suggests minimalism. But the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) movement is far from a small organization. Its churches pervade small-town America, and its members number in the hundreds of thousands. They are your next-door neighbor, that nice family you met at your child’s soccer game, and the well-dressed men and women knocking on your door inviting you to church. Many people reading this book will, with or without knowing it, have come into contact with members of the IFB Church. They might even know them well—or think they do. This book may force them to reconsider.

  Jocelyn Zichterman’s exposé will inevitably draw intense criticism for a number of reasons. Most IFB members hold rigorously to the idea that their churches are independent from their fellow “independent” Baptist churches and organizations, particularly when those other IFB groups become entangled in scandals. However, I Fired God refutes the notion of individuality they so vehemently claim, meticulously plotting the IFB’s widespread network and connecting the dots between its many churches, schools, colleges, camps, and institutes.

  Reading through my sister’s manuscript was very disturbing for me because I was there. I walked through Jocelyn’s childhood with her. Revisiting the horrors of our childhood and early adult years brought back a lot of pain and tears. While the details in this book are vivid, it is impossible to convey the full extent of the nightmare we lived through. I Fired God highlights moments of terror we experienced in a family under the repressive influence of the IFB. But the reality is, they are just moments. For every dramatic event described in these pages, there were three months of daily horror that go unmentioned. There is no way to compress the years of unending fear, depression, guilt, and pain we suffered into one volume. The stories you are about to read are selected highlights. I can recall thousands more just like them—all disturbing, some humiliating, and many terrifying. As I can attest, Jocelyn’s account of our lives in the cult are not exaggerated or sensationalized. If anything, she has downplayed the whole truth, for there are experiences too personal and painful to share with the public.

  There are many ways of dealing with abuse. Ultimately, Jocelyn and I both decided that it wasn’t healthy to deny what happened to us. What we have been through is a part of who we have become. I’ve been asked many times how I survived. My method has been to accept the past as part of my development into the person I am today. I refuse to sugarcoat the memories that still cause my heart to race when I hear a garage door open after all these years. I will not minimize the effect the sound a belt buckle has on me when it hits a hard surface even now. I no longer attempt to block out the memories of crying and screaming as the wooden dowel whistled through the air and the rage-filled eyes of my father glared down at me as a child.

  Courage cannot be manufactured. It is cultivated. The desire for social justice comes from an inward motivation to see right prevail. This is the spirit of the words you will read in the following pages. No child should endure the brutality we did, especially not under the pretense of religion. No child should suffer at the hands of his or her guardian. Jocelyn’s story is written so that others will gain strength to take up the cause of fighting for the innocent—so other children will be protected from harm.

  —MELISSA JANZ FLETCHER (Jocelyn’s sister), September 2012

  1

  IS THE DEVIL BEHIND US OR UP AHEAD?

  My job [as pastor] is to execute wrath upon those who disobey.… Those of you who want to do right, we get along just fine. Those of you who don’t want to do right usually have a run-in with me. You know why? Because I’m ordained by God to stand in this position.

  —Bart Janz, sermon, “God and Government II,” Holly Ridge Baptist Church, 2006

  Escaping the Cult: August 1, 2006

  I looked down at my hand and realized I was trembling. Terror. That’s the only word to describe what I felt. I forced myself to add another item to my long “to do” list, but the pen shook so much that my writing was nearly illegible. Taking several deep breaths and struggling to calm myself, I glanced out the window into a black, moonless night.

  It was two in the morning and the house was silent. My husband, Joseph, and all eight of my children had gone to bed hours ago, but I couldn’t sleep. I hadn’t been able to for more than a week now, knowing that hour by hour the moment was drawing closer when we would leave everything we knew behind and head into a future as inscrutable as the blackness outside the window.

  From my seat at the mahogany table in our dining room, I took in my surroundings. There was the china cabinet that held our most cherished wedding gifts. And the grandfather clock we had inherited from my husband, Joseph’s, late mother. This had always been my favorite room, and I was sitting in it for the last time. It was where I had read my Bible and prayed every morning over my breakfast tea for the past six years. Now, I realized, I was no longer sure I believed any of the words in the Holy Bible. I wondered if there was a God at all. But I forced those thoughts to the back of my mind. The only thing that mattered was whether we would all survive the journey ahead.

  We had been planning it for months—carefully and quietly organizing our departure from the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) church, like captives secretly plotting an escape from their guards—ever since I had spoken up about the brutal abuse I had endured as a child at the hands of my father, Bart Janz, an influential IFB pastor in Brighton, Colorado. Sadistic mind games and vicious beatings were a part of everyday life for my four siblings and me from toddlerhood throughout our teen years—beatings during which I was sometimes forced to lie naked facedown on my bed for hours while my father flogged me until I was bloody and could barely walk, sermonizing between each blow. Determined to keep his “house in order,” he wielded power with a Bible in one hand and a thick wooden dowel in the other. A chilling image of him rose up in my mind, eyes black and purple veins pulsating in his neck as they always did when he was in a rage.

  I could almost feel raw, angry welts rising afresh on the backs of my legs. Fear surged through me, but I shook it off. There was no time to panic, no time to curl up in the corner and weep. I was determined to save my own children from my fate—from growing up in a community and a faith that not only tolerated but advocated torturing children to crush their will. I had to get them as far away as possible. And
I had only a few hours to do it.

  Breaking My Silence: January 2005

  An overwhelming fear for my children had convinced me to end my long silence about my own past a year earlier. When I finally confided in Joseph, in early 2005, the stories tumbling out in an anguished torrent, he was horrified. He had joined the church at the age of thirteen without his parents’ involvement, and, not having grown up in an IFB family, he had no firsthand knowledge of the shattering physical and psychological damage fathers like mine did to their children under the guise of godly discipline.

  Learning about my childhood sent Joseph into an intense moral struggle. He loved me and he knew I was telling the truth. But standing by me now would require abandoning his entire way of life. As a man in a fiercely male-dominated subculture, he had always been treated well. He was respected, even revered in the IFB. He had been a frequent IFB conference speaker as well as a professor at one of the most prominent IFB colleges for over a decade. At the age of only thirty-three, he had even received an honorary doctorate from Bob Jones University, the IFB’s worldwide headquarters, located in Greenville, South Carolina. So up to this point, the strongest reprimands he had ever gotten from the church leaders had come for failing to keep me sufficiently meek and submissive. He had spent years listening to IFB preachers warn that women were deceivers, Jezebels, put on earth to lead men astray ever since that fateful day when Eve handed Adam the forbidden fruit. He had also been indoctrinated in the IFB paranoia that the world beyond our insular community was wicked and that venturing into it was a one-way ticket to damnation. When Joseph ultimately chose to support my decision to leave the IFB, it was a turning point in our marriage as well as our lives. He knew he was in for the fight of his life.

  My husband called my father at his home in Colorado and told him what he had done to me was wrong. But if he was hoping for a mea culpa he didn’t know Bart Janz. The man who had made my childhood a living hell now turned his full fury on Joseph and vowed to make our adult lives equally hellish.

  He swore he would destroy Joseph’s career, ruin us financially, and make sure we never left the IFB. He called the IFB leaders at Northland Baptist Bible College, where Joseph was a professor, to tell them I was making wild allegations and trying to lure my husband away from “the only true church.” He painted us in the blackest light possible. The IFB leaders were powerful men and close friends of my father’s, and, as far as I can tell, they backed every move he made against us, informing Joseph a short time later that they were terminating his teaching position at the end of that semester. This only enflamed my father’s rage toward us and reinforced his sense of righteous indignation. We lived in a small, isolated town in the middle of the Wisconsin woods, five miles from the nearest two-lane highway, where nearly everyone belonged to the IFB. We had nowhere we could turn in our own community for help.

  “I’m coming to deal with you publicly in front of the entire community whether you like it or not!” my father screamed over the phone. Joseph tried repeatedly to reason with him. When that failed, he threatened him with a restraining order, but it only threw fuel on the fire.

  “This is going to trail you, buddy, for the rest of your life!” my father bellowed. “This is war!”

  My Paralyzing Fear

  All my life my father had warned me that he would kill me if I ever talked about the abuse I had suffered at his hands. My formative years were full of death threats from him, and somewhere in the back of my mind I had always expected him to carry through. It was just a question of when. I knew the man was capable of bloodshed. I had seen him torture animals to death, even beloved family pets, many times.

  Now a new terror seized me: Would he try to do the same to my children? The thought was unbearable. One night a few months earlier I had been gripped with such a paralyzing fear that I had called 911.

  “He’s coming! I don’t know what he’ll do!” I screamed into the phone.

  The 911 operator tried to make sense of my hysteria. “Who’s coming, ma’am? Where is he coming to?”

  “My father! I confronted him about abusing me and now he says he’s coming to my home! And I have eight children!” Months of stress had taken a heavy toll on my body and my mind, and confessing my fears to a stranger pushed me over the edge. I collapsed into uncontrollable, shuddering sobs while the operator attempted to calm me down.

  My life had become like a scene from a horror movie, where you’re holding your breath and tensing every muscle, waiting for the monster to spring out. But for me the scene never ended. How many nights had I crept from my bed and peered warily out our windows? It was hard to see the yard in the dead of night and even harder to see the woods behind it, but I was convinced that one night soon my father would slip into them unnoticed to watch us from the shadows. The wind would rustle a branch, and I would freeze, sure I saw him lurking in the trees, ready to strike.

  Sometimes I felt like I couldn’t survive one more day. But my kids … what would happen to them if I gave up? They were the reason I kept going, steeling myself, expecting at every moment to hear my father pounding on the front door and shouting my name, to see him burst in wielding his wooden dowel over us as my children cowered in fear behind me.

  BAM!

  The silence of the night was broken by the sudden slam of a door. My heart took off like a thoroughbred out of the starting gate. My body stiffened, bracing for the figure from my nightmares to come striding into my dining room. A moment later, relief swept through me as I heard light footsteps run down the hallway, away from the bathroom. One of the kids was headed back to bed, blissfully unaware of the danger surrounding all of us.

  I closed my eyes and tried to think through the hours ahead. Had I overlooked anything? Forgotten any documents or essentials for the children? Was that a footstep I heard outside? I had been operating on no more than five fitful, nightmare-filled hours of sleep for months. No doubt chronic sleep deprivation was fueling my delusions and paranoia. But even in my addled state, I was clear on one point: The IFB was a cult, and getting our children away from it was essential. We had to break free.

  Was the devil behind us or up ahead? I didn’t know.

  2

  MY CHILDHOOD IN WISCONSIN (1975–1985)

  You see all these husbands doing dishes, cleaning, vacuuming, dusting—it’s not their job, it’s ours [as wives]. You know there might be a time when they help, when we’re sick or in difficult circumstances, but that is not his job and we should not rely on that man to do our job that God has given to us to do.

  —Diane Olson, President’s Wife’s Address, Northland Baptist Bible College, 2004

  I smoothed my little red dress down to hide my knees and hugged Emily, my favorite baby doll. With her chestnut hair and her big brown eyes, I thought she looked just like me. I spent all my time during the summer months in rural Wisconsin cuddling her soft beaded body and dreaming of the day when I would be a real mom. My favorite pastime was to put her in my ladybug buggy and stroll her up and down our driveway. When I was six it seemed to stretch on for miles, though looking back now it was no longer than five hundred yards.

  On that particular breezy summer afternoon, I was seated in the grass in our yard tucking a blanket around Emily and getting her ready to be put down for her “afternoon nap” when I was jarred out of my reverie by deep guttural yells emanating from the small barn my father had built on our property to house a few chickens and pigeons.

  I sensed danger instinctively and my whole body tensed. My father’s footsteps thundered up the wooden planks that led into the back of the barn. “Get him!” he bellowed. “Don’t let him get through that door! Close it NOW!”

  I looked up and saw Rob, my sister Meagan’s cat, leap into the air in a frantic attempt to escape through the open barn door. But my brother Jason slammed it, catching the animal in midair and pinning him between the door and the frame. Rob screeched and clawed, struggling wildly to break free from the heavy wood that was crushing him
. A second later, a jolt of terror surged through me as three sharp metal points burst out of Rob’s rib cage. Blood splattered everywhere and Rob let out an agonized, high-pitched squeal. The cat squirmed, thrashed, and mewed pitifully on the end of the pitchfork my father had thrust through his body. Eventually Rob went limp and I knew he was dead.

  Too shocked to cry and too petrified to run away, I stayed rooted to the grass, staring at the barn as if transfixed. Slowly I became aware that I was shaking. My entire body felt tight and hot, as if I had been standing too close to a heat lamp.

  And, as was so often the case in my childhood, just when I thought the terror was over, it got worse. My father lit out after Moses, my sister Melissa’s cat, chasing the terrified animal around and around our backyard. He soon managed to trap the little black cat in a gunnysack. He tied the sack to a fencepost, grabbed a BB gun, and fired into it again and again until the sack was motionless and soaked in blood.

  It was too much for a six-year-old to process. My brain numb and my motions mechanical, I turned my attention back to Emily, silently praying my father’s wrath wouldn’t fall on me next.

  Rob had lived with us for more than a year. Meagan was so crazy about the little brown and white tabby that she had named him in honor of her favorite babysitter and secret crush. He had always been a beloved family pet. Moses had too. Or so I thought.

  I found out later that Rob had scratched Meagan’s neck when she tried to pick him up, an act that apparently warranted a death sentence in my father’s mind. Moses, he conceded, hadn’t technically done anything wrong. But after Rob’s misdeed, he was through with cats. They didn’t deserve to live.

  For years my father recounted the event to anyone who would listen, reenacting the most dramatic moments and rounding out his tale with deep, hearty guffaws as if it was all uproariously funny. He was part braggart, part self-styled comedian on these occasions and, though I cringed internally, we were all expected to laugh at his antics or risk a beating.

 
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