From popular LGBTQ advice columnist and writer John Paul Brammer comes a hilarious, heartwarming memoir-in-essays chronicling his journey growing up as a queer, mixed-race kid in America's heartland to becoming the "Chicano Carrie Bradshaw" of his generation. "[Brammer] is both kind and piercingly funny, often in the same sentence....Personal and affecting....¡Hola Papi! is a master class of tone and tenderness, as Brammer balances self-compassion with humor." —THE NEW YORK TIMES BOOK REVIEW "[¡Hola Papi! should be] required reading...[Brammer's] writing is incredibly funny, kind, and gracious to his readers, and deeply vulnerable in a way that makes it feel as if he's talking to only you." —LOS ANGELES TIMES "The next generation's 'Dear Abby'." —MSNBCThe first time someone called John Paul (JP) Brammer "Papi" was on the popular gay hookup app Grindr. At first, it was...